This article is about how masculinity, correctly defined can and is positive. Masculinity has valuable characteristics that benefit society and should be promoted, whilst simultaneously calling out behaviour that is unacceptable and should be excluded from any definition of masculinity. For masculine traits to be positive, men must remove all behaviour that is sexist and does not respect women. Men must also look after themselves more and select masculine traits that guide them to be a better person. This article

Why Body Language is extremely flawed way of reading peoples emotions, intentions or guilt. Yes, there is general truths, in our society, but there is also people that use the body language to sell you, charm and bullshit you. Even expert investigators get it wrong 50% of the time as we all learn from TV where everyone is faking it. How well do you read people and communicate through body language? You are far worse than you think you are.

This article is a combination of 25 year’s of child protection training, research and experience built on adapting Military Intelligence threat analysis and detailed insight into child sexual abuse and how predators operate. It is the most useful and important thing I have ever written and thank you for reading, sharing it and contributing to increased awareness for the prevention of child abuse. I was trained as a military intelligence officer to analyze threats. When I started training people in