THE BENEFITS OF POSITIVE MASCULINITY

This article is about how masculinity, correctly defined can and is positive. Masculinity has valuable characteristics that benefit society and should be promoted, whilst simultaneously calling out behaviour that is unacceptable and should be excluded from any definition of masculinity. For masculine traits to be positive, men must remove all behaviour that is sexist and does not respect women. Men must also look after themselves more and select masculine traits that guide them to be a better person. This article

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The Bullshit of reading Body Language

Why Body Language is extremely flawed way of reading peoples emotions, intentions or guilt. Yes, there is general truths, in our society, but there is also people that use the body language to sell you, charm and bullshit you. Even expert investigators get it wrong 50% of the time as we all learn from TV where everyone is faking it. How well do you read people and communicate through body language? You are far worse than you think you are.

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Fu*k Your Feelings

What good are your feelings? How often are your feelings correct? How often do your feelings misguide you? How often do your feelings lead you down the wrong path, with the wrong person? How often do your feelings make you feel bad, hold you back and upset you? Way too often! Tell your feelings to fuck off and take control! When have your feelings ever been the guiding light for your goals, achievements, and good decisions? Never. Good things are

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SITTING OUTSIDE IMPORTANT MEETINGS. Meeting the Queen, The Director of the CIA, President Clinton and Prime Minister John Howard in the course of my protection work.

Plus a rant about response to incidents in the modern world of security, protection and political correctness. When a regular person meets a famous person, it is unimportant to them but a bright moment for you. A forgotten inconsequential moment for them and a cool story for you. I never met a famous rock star, but I did hang out (briefly) with influential important people who shape the world that we all know about. I worked for the government and

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The Muay Thai Stoic – Benefits of Stoicism for Muay Thai & Life.

Stoicism for Muay Thai and Life. Some lessons for everyone to help improve your existence. Doing Muay Thai is tough, being stoic is tough but they are both great for you. Including some stoic philosophy in your Muay Thai life will enhance your training and your life. It will also make a fighter better to live with during weight cuts, losses, setbacks, annoying people and injuries. In true modern adoptionism, take what works for you and disregard what does not.

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The incredibly benefits of not having kids and being a DINK. (Dual Income NO Kids)

Why do we have children? Being a childless couple is the choice of smart people who want to live well, save the environment, achieve goals and be useful members of the community. Enjoy the benefits of not having kids to enjoy a life free from the constant grind and responsibility of bringing up children, which is extending more often into adulthood, as children are remaining dependents (and drains) longer. Some people who have children wonder why, but because they have

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TRAINING MAKES YOU FEEL BETTER.

My favourite quote that I have up on the white board at my home gym is simple –‘TRAINING MAKES YOU FEEL BETTER’. From the pride, from endorphins, from dopamine, from the escape, and from just the simple fact that you did something for yourself that is good for you, as opposed to being indulgent, lazy or being distracted. We all suffer from two great problems every day – fear and lethargy. Fear of the day and the future actions, decision

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SOME SUGGESTIONS FOR HOW TO LIVE WITH (FEMALE) MENOPAUSE – FOR MEN.

‘Men’ – (named after men) – ‘O’ for Ohhhh – ‘Pause’ for take a breath. WARNING: This article is sarcastic and will upset people. If your wife has menopause, do not let her see you reading this. Women have menopause. Men who live with women, must live with it as a carer and joint sufferer. I am talking about female menopause, not male menopause, if that exists it has not happened to me but if it does, I expect it

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Why everyone should get punched in the face?

The importance of being punched in the face and learning about yourself – metaphorically and physically. No one really wants to get punched in the face, but everyone should experience it. Some people deserve it and need it, some don’t deserve it but can learn from it, and some people will put themself in a position to risk it, embrace it and learn from it. Whether you are found wanting from your response or embrace the reaction and learn from

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THE PROFILE OF A PREDATOR (An article on Child Protection.)

This article is a combination of 25 year’s of child protection training, research and experience built on adapting Military Intelligence threat analysis and detailed insight into child sexual abuse and how predators operate. It is the most useful and important thing I have ever written and thank you for reading, sharing it and contributing to increased awareness for the prevention of child abuse. I was trained as a military intelligence officer to analyze threats. When I started training people in

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